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22 Jan 2020 - 5 min read

Japan Etiquette 101: Your Guide to Nippon Manners and Customs

The Culture and Customs of Japan When it Comes to...

Greeting

Japanese people

Japanese people are not big on physical contact so they don't have it much in everyday interactions. Although a handshake is accepted in business greetings, a simple bow is already considered an appropriate greeting in most situations.

Some greetings to know:

Ohayō Gozaimasu - Good morning!
Konnichiwa - Hello/Good afternoon!
Hajimemashite - This is roughly translated to “How do you do?” or “Nice to meet you!" in English. This should only be used if you’re meeting a person for the first time.

Entering Homes

Ryokan

If you happen to be visiting a friend’s house or staying at a Ryokan or other traditional Japanese accommodations, taking off your shoes is customary before entering the premises.Most Japanese homes have a genkan, which is a traditional entryway lower than and separated from the main indoor flooring. It’s where you can remove and leave your shoes and replace them for slippers provided by the host. It’s also polite to say “ojamashimasu” (which roughly means “Please pardon the intrusion.”) before entering as a guest.Some Japanese-style restaurants also uphold this practice so make sure to check before stepping foot in the establishment. There’s usually a sign on the door or you can simply observe if people are doing it upon entering.

Dining

Japan Restaurant

Japanese dining manners vary per region. Some general dining manners are the use of chopsticks and saying the phrases “itadakimasu” and “gochisousamadesu,” which means “I humbly receive this food” and “thank you for the meal,” respectively. Another thing you should note is that Japan is big on self-service, so you should put away your trays afterward and try not to have any leftover food.If you’re not using your chopsticks, you should put them on the chopstick holder, which is often provided by Japanese restaurants. If it’s disposable, you can make use of the wrapper instead. Slurping soup or noodles may be considered bad manners in other countries, but it’s a sign of appreciation in Japan. Don’t look down on the locals should their customs be different from yours, but also don’t feel obligated to slurp yourself.

Chopsticks Etiquette

When eating with groups, Japanese people often wait until everyone is sitting down and has their meal in front of them before starting. It’s also good manners to ask if you can take the last piece or bite of a shared meal. Eating directly from common dishes is considered bad manners. Put it on your plate first before proceeding to take a bite.Meanwhile, paying the bill varies in circumstances (like rank and age), but it’s generally good manners to offer to pay if you did the inviting. Also, take note that it is not customary to tip in Japan. Some restaurant staff might even chase you down to return the extra money.

Some chopsticks DON’Ts:

Don't stick your chopsticks upright in your rice. This is part of a ceremony performed in funerals and is a way of offering food to the spirit of a dead person.
Don't dig or browse through shared dishes with your chopsticks.
Never leave chopsticks crossed on top of your bowl or plate as it reminds people of funeral rites.
Never share food by passing from chopsticks to chopsticks. This also resembles a Japanese funeral custom.

Taking Public Transportation

Tokyo Train

Japan has one of the most organized and vast transportation systems in the world. Once you get a hang of purchasing tickets, finding your way through the different stations, and getting over the initial fear of getting lost, you’ll find that taking the train is the easiest and most efficient way of getting around the city—and even the whole country!

Some things to remember:

Train manners are much similar to elevator etiquette: talking is acceptable but should only be done in hushed tones. Speaking on your phone is also looked down upon in Japan.
If you are carrying a large backpack, it’s polite to take it off and hold it in your hands to prevent it from bumping into other riders. Rush hour on the trains can get pretty crowded!
When waiting to board the train, it’s good manners to line up on one side and wait for the people inside to get off first before going in.
Priority seating is provided in each train car and should only be used by the elderly, pregnant women, or disabled riders.

Visiting Temples and Shrines

Kanda Shrine

Most of the general rules apply when you visit holy and sacred places, like wearing appropriate attire, removing hats, and keeping quiet to respect worshippers in prayer. Some shrines ask visitors to take off their shoes before entering as well. You may leave them on the shelves by the entrance or bring them with you in bags provided by the place.

Some temple and shrine DOs:

Wear proper attire. There is no strict dress code but it's polite to wear something that does not show too much skin.
Go to the purification fountains near the entrance upon arrival and use the ladles to fill with fresh water to wash your hands with.
Photography is often permitted outside but may be forbidden inside temples. Take note of the signs.
Remove your shoes before entering any temple.
Throw a coin into the box at the offering hall, bow deeply twice, clap your hands twice, and then bow once more to pray. If there is a bell or gong, use it before praying as it is said to get the kami's—also known as the Shinto gods—attention.
Behave and avoid making any noise or commotion to respect other visitors who came to pray.

Make a good impression with these Japanese manners and etiquette and have a fun and hassle-free travel experience in Japan. Find flights from the Philippines to Japan on Traveloka and search deals on full-service carriers including Cathay Pacific promos!

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